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Jul. 22nd, 2035 08:39 am
Friends post.
It's been eons since I last made a Friends post...
I'm one of those people who threw away old-school-fandom-style thinking during college about 10 years back for a lot of personal reasons, which means:
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I do not like or feel comfortable with age gap ships, particularly teens and adults, or any pair that give a "parental" feeling on one side, nor incest, nor the squickier tags on AO3's warnings. I know there might be orphaned fic or two that imply otherwise, but around the time of orphaning them, I was realizing a lot about how I thought re: "fiction affecting reality" versus my previous "fiction isn't reality" thinking (including the way it affected myself and people I knew), and I reiterate, I have a lot of personal reasons for the change in thinking.
If our mindset on this differs, friending me probably won't be the best for either of us!
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If you're younger than 20, I don't feel comfortable friending you! I hope that's understandable.
I am not around to cause conflict and am mainly here to geek out though, so if the above isn't really a concern, feel free to hang! ^_^
I'm one of those people who threw away old-school-fandom-style thinking during college about 10 years back for a lot of personal reasons, which means:
( 1 )
I do not like or feel comfortable with age gap ships, particularly teens and adults, or any pair that give a "parental" feeling on one side, nor incest, nor the squickier tags on AO3's warnings. I know there might be orphaned fic or two that imply otherwise, but around the time of orphaning them, I was realizing a lot about how I thought re: "fiction affecting reality" versus my previous "fiction isn't reality" thinking (including the way it affected myself and people I knew), and I reiterate, I have a lot of personal reasons for the change in thinking.
If our mindset on this differs, friending me probably won't be the best for either of us!
( 2 )
If you're younger than 20, I don't feel comfortable friending you! I hope that's understandable.
I am not around to cause conflict and am mainly here to geek out though, so if the above isn't really a concern, feel free to hang! ^_^
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